It's Almost Thursday!

Actually, it's only Monday, but let's celebrate Champagne Thursday a little early this week!

Champagne is wonderfully delicious, and the bubbles tickle my nose. Champagne is naturally romantic, and will almost always set the mood for an evening of passion.

I have been sampling a few champagnes lately, and would like to take a moment to share my experiences.

Andre Brut Champagne- This is usually the cheapest champagne that one will find at the liquor store (or at the Supermarket, if your state allows). Usually costing about $4 per bottle, this is one of my faves, and most common purchases. The flavor is good, fairly mellow, with little bitter aftertaste. The carbonation is also good - just bubbly enough. A good buy!

Montsarra Cava Brut - This Spanish champagne was the priciest of my recent expenditure, costing about $15 per bottle (still cheap champagne). The flavor is decent, rather fruity, but there is quite an aftertaste with this bottle. The carbonation is low, so it's more like wine than champagne. This was not one of my faves, and I probably won't buy this one again.

Totts Brut Champange - This is my number one favorite buy. The flavor is absolutely delightful (almost flowery with a touch of citrus) and there is zero bitter aftertaste. There's a little more carbonation in this bottle than I have found in most others, so it tickles just a little more and gets the buzz on a little more quickly. It's a little pricier than the Andre, costing around $11 per bottle.

Barefoot Bubbly Brut Champagne - I was not a fan of this one. It tastes like very cheap White Zin, has a strong, lasting aftertaste and is rather low on carbonation. The cost is fair at around $7 per bottle, but I will not be purchasing this one again. I do love the bottle, however.

I will be continuing my adventures in the world of Champagne. What is your favorite buy?

Romance

LoverMan (LM) pours me a glass of champagne and lightly massages the back of my neck. He takes me by the hand and leads me into the bathroom. Rose petals adorn the floor. Candles are burning along the counter and in the sconces lining the walls. The mirror is fogged from the steam that is billowing out of the already full bathtub. Cascades of bubbles and foam brush the lip of the tub, wanting to spill over onto the floor.

LM slides my bathrobe off my shoulders, and it falls into a heap on the floor. He lightly kisses my neck and watches me lower myself into the steaming tub. With the touch of a button, Andrea Bocelli graces my ears and soothes my senses. "Relax, my love." And with that, he leaves me in peace.

I am loved.

An Expression of Love

This is an actual text message received by myself, Lady Elle, from my LoverMan (LM).

I love you so much, I think about you all day. When I get home, it takes all my self control not to be all over you. I think about your kisses and the way they taste, I think about your skin and the way it smells, I think about your hair and the way it feels, and I ache all day in anticipation of getting to experience you when I get home. I love you.

I am one Lucky Lady!

The Language(s) of Love

Everyone says "I love you" in a different way. In addition to that, everyone feels "I love you" in a different way. One person's idea of showing their love may be as different to their partner's idea of expression as Chinese is to French.

There are five Love Languages; five ways to show someone that you care, and five ways that may make someone feel that special feeling.

Words of Affirmation - This is one of my favorite of the languages. It can simply be saying, "Honey, you did a great job!" It can be a compliment "Your hair looks nice today", an expression of gratitude "Thanks for helping with the laundry", or words of encouragement "I know you can do this, babe".

Physical Touch - I think this is one of the more obvious expressions of love. Sex falls into this category, but there are many other forms of physical touch, as well. Kissing can be very intimate, as well as body rubbing, and making love. Sometimes a subtle brush up against one another as you pass in the hallway, or a touch on the cheek might be nice. Some physical touch is pleasant to some people, while other people may be uncomfortable with some forms of touch. Experiment! Pay attention to how your partner reacts to different touches in different areas. Listen and feel.

Quality Time - This one is not as easy as it sounds. Two people could spend an entire evening together, and not spend a moment of quality time. You must focus your energy completely on your partner. Share experiences, thoughts and feelings. Make conversation (with both people actively involved). LISTEN and respond. Find activities that you enjoy sharing, and do them together. Set aside focused time to share solely with your mate.

Receiving Gifts - Some people are way into this one, while others might prefer any other language. I think this language is most openly expressed on Valentine's Day, Anniversaries, Birthdays, etc, but can be spoken on any day for any reason (or for no reason at all, other than to give your partner a symbol of your love). The gifts need not be expensive, and need not necessarily come frequently. Some partners are not avid spenders; however it is important to understand that you are investing your money not in gifts, but in deepening your relationship with your mate.

Acts of Service - This is another big one for me. Nothing says "I love you" like a partner that helps you fold the laundry or empty the dishwasher, so that you can snuggle together later and not be worried about the ever-building chore list. I also love it when my LoverMan cooks me dinner, so that I get a break from the never ending work-to-be-done and can relax for a moment. It is pampering. It is important to do these services as an act of kindness, and not out of obligation. You must want to help your partner.

What is your love language? And the better question is, what is your partners language?

Greetings

Greetings ! I am Lady Elle; welcome to my blog. It is here that you will indulge into one's inner-most fantasies and desires; here that you might delve into passion and romance; here where you may find eroticism and sensuality. I invite you to cozy up, snuggle in and read along. Please feel free to share your thoughts and feelings along the way.